Frequently asked questions

Answers to the questions I get asked most

What happened to bohemea’s tumblr?  You can read about tumblr deleting her account in her own words here and follow her on her new blog here on wordpress

Are you male or female? Female.

What do you look like? You can see pictures of me on mine and Bohemea’s flickr.

How long have you and Bohemea been a couple? She and I have been together nine years. 

How old are you? I am 33.

Where do you live? We live in Vancouver, BC, Canada.

What do you do for a living? Oh, the usual. I bowl. Drive around. The occasional acid flashback.

Where is your username from? It’s from the INXS song - Suicide blonde, dyed by her own hand. Not the Jack’s Manniquen or Weepies song, and not the Number 23 movie.

Where do you get your pictures? The Internet. That sounds flippant but I’ve been collecting pictures online since I first went on the Internet in 1996, so they are either archived on harddrives or are gathered off of image archives daily. Or if they’re from our flickr, then it’s a scan I’ve done.

Who made your header? The beautiful and talented artist Molly Crabapple gifted me and Bohemea each with our headers, and also made one for Pussy le Queer.

Who made your layout? It’s no longer avaliable, sorry.


Follow for follow?  I don’t follow for follow, sorry.

Why don’t you post (this person)?  If I don’t post pictures of someone, it’s because I’m not a fan of them, not that I don’t know about them yet.  

Will you look at my tumblr/my website/etc?  I don’t find my content this way - I find out about artist, photographers, etc through the archival sites I visit.  I know that self promotion is key, but the best way to get noticed is to do great, original work.  

Do you have more info about this picture?  I put as much information as I can with a picture, so that’s all I know. 

I’m sorry I have to unfollow you because…. Don’t worry about it, I’ll be okay.

I’m sorry I reblogged so much!  Why would I be mad about getting reblogs?  Have at it!